Amazing, Absolutely Amazing

When I enrolled at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, in the fall of 1963, there were only 18 black freshman and no black faculty members.  White women, in relatively small numbers, had attended the university for decades but 1963 was the first year women were admitted as freshmen in it’s fine arts program.  So when I started school there almost every class was mostly white and mostly male.

I may have taken this particular class when I was a sophomore, I don’t remember, but I do remember exactly what happened.

The instructor asked for volunteers, got half a dozen, and sent them out of the room.  He told the rest of the class that he  was going to call those students back into class one at a time.

He said he would tell the first student he called back into the room this story:  

A well dressed white man got on a bus, sat down in the front next to a white woman, and began to bother her. When other passengers tried to get him to move, he pulled a knife. At that point the bus driver stopped and made the man get off the bus. The story had a lot of detail I’ve left out, but those were the main points.

The instructor said that after telling the story to the first volunteer he would ask another volunteer to come back into the room.  The first volunteer  would then be asked to stand in front of the class and repeat the story to the second volunteer. Then the third volunteer would be asked to come back and the second volunteer would tell him the story. And so on and so forth until the story had been repeated by all the volunteers, including the last one who would repeat the story one last time to the class.

If one of those student left out some detail when he retold the story, that detail was gone forever, of course.  And if he changed something, that change was repeated.  

I sat there listening in amazement as the story was told and retold.

Before they’re finished, the instructor predicted, the white man would become a black man, the good clothes would turn into shabby clothes, and the knife would become a razor.

And that’s exactly what happened.

BACKGROUND: “In the spring of 1963, members of the Student Peace Union and town residents in the Committee for Open Business began demanding the integration of all public facilities. Pickets appeared during April in front of the privately owned College Cafe. Protesters launched street marches in May. In July, they increased pressure on the town council by mounting their first sit-in inside a business.”  Source: The Carolina Story: A Virtual Museum of University History

Coming Friday: My One Star Hotel

 

Good Luck

When I came home from the Navy in September 1962 to go to school at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill my father and mother gave me $100 to buy civilian clothes — and wished me good luck.

That $100 was $100 more than I expected.  I was 20 years old.  I had been to sea.   I was engaged to be married the following June.  I was full grown.

Donna, Bo, Pat
Donna, Bo, Pat

I had saved most of my pay while I was in the service.  After we were married, Donna, my wife, worked full time as a secretary in the UNC School of Nursing  until Bo was born 11 months later.  She worked all day the day before he was born. After Bo arrived she typed term papers and babysat to earn money.

 I worked up to 30 hours a week at the UNC Office of Sports Information after class and on weekends. The School of Journalism gave me a scholarship my junior and senior years.

My senior year we borrowed $450 from Brother Dave so I could quit my part-time job to get experience that would help me when I graduated — I took a pay cut from my $1 an hour job so I could work after class for the school newspaper, The Daily Tar Heel.

All in all, we did OK moneywise — we finished in four years with three babies and no debt other than what we owed Dave.

Still, I don’t recommend that plan. I wonder sometimes what it would have been like to have spent the afternoon in Louis Round Wilson Library studying just for the joy of it instead of studying for a test, to make a grade.

Or maybe even taking an afternoon off and throwing a Frisbee.

Coming Friday: Lost in Moscow