The Racist

I won what the Navy called the “American Spirit Honor Metal” as the top recruit in my 800-man boot camp battalion.

MedalI think the chief who ran Company 526 picked me to represent the company mainly because I had the highest average score on the weekly tests we were given.  That’s not saying much. In those days a good many Navy recruits were high school drop outs.

The 10 of us, one from each 80-man company in the battalion, were questioned, one by one, by an officer who cut the list of candidates to three.  The questions he asked were easy. One, I remember, because of his reaction to my answer.

“What is your first obligation if you are captured?” he asked.

“To escape,” I answered.

He looked at me with a hard face and asked, “Have you been given the answers to these questions?”

“No sir,” I answered. “There are posters outside all of our classrooms. One of the posters said if we are captured our first obligation is to escape. I read them while we wait for class to start.”

That's me, being recognized as the top gradate in my 800-man batallion.
That’s me, being recognized as the top recruit in my 800-man battalion.

The three candidates who survived the first cut were interviewed by a three-member panel of officers and I won.  The next day the chief who ran my company asked, “What did you tell them, Stith?”

“What do you mean?” I said.  “I answered their questions.”

“They didn’t want to pick you. They said you are a racist.”

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The three-officer panel had asked me a lot of military questions which I easily answered. I don’t think I missed any.  And then they asked me how I felt about racial segregation.

They had my military record. They knew I was a Southerner, born in Alabama, raised in Alabama and North Carolina in the 1940’s and 50’s.  For the first time, I paused, torn between the truth and what I knew they wanted to hear.

“Take your time,” one of the officers said.

Then I thought, What the hell.  I told them.  I said I had no problem taking orders from a Negro enlisted man or officer, or serving side by side aboard ship. But I did not believe in what I called “social mixing.”

In an odd sort of way I am grateful for that day. A lot of other people don’t remember what they were 58 years ago, exactly where they stood, and, consequentially, can’t know how much they’ve changed.

NOTE: My battalion and another battalion graduated on the same day. The top recruit from the other battalion was a black man.

Coming Friday: Let’s Try Again

You Want Ugly?


My father-in-law, Jack Hyland, was a regular at auctions and junk yards around Charlotte and he would buy almost anything if the price was right.

One time he bought a box of second hand pantyhose and took them home to his wife and two daughters, thinking they would be pleased.  He was wrong about that.  Another time he bought a size two wedding dress.

And who would bid on a box of stuff not knowing what was inside? Jack Hyland.

Jack Hyland
Jack Hyland

Junk he bought was crammed into a plumbing shop he owned on Charles Avenue and several thousand square feet of a warehouse he rented in North Charlotte.

And it’s good thing, too.

When I resigned from The Charlotte News in 1971 and we moved to Knightdale, N.C., we kept our house in Charlotte, on Uppergate Lane, for years and rented it.   We only had one one bad tenant but she was a doozy.  After her husband moved out, or got thrown out, I had to keep after her to pay the rent but I didn’t force her to move until her kids started tearing shingles off the roof. When I finally got them out of there I began cleaning up the mess she left behind, including a dead chicken.  Have you ever smelled a chicken that’s been dead for a week? 

There were a lot of things that had to be fixed before I could rent the house again, including damage to some awful looking paneling in the family room.

I had paid for that paneling but I hadn’t picked it out. I had let her and her husband get what they wanted and what they wanted was some green and white streaked stuff that looked a lot like splattered puke.  I had to replaced two of those panels and I had no idea how I was going to find an identical match. And if I couldn’t I’d have to repanel the whole room.  Who in the world would have a supply of such awful looking paneling?

Jack Hyland, of course, at his shop on Charles Street.  It was brand new, too.  

Coming Monday: The Racist