Get Dressed, Please

I was an assistant metro editor at The News & Observer for eight long months* and, of course, being the junior man I worked on Sundays, the slowest news day of the week.

Except for shootings and wrecks nothing much happened on Sunday and we grabbed at anything, including a tractor pull at the N.C. State Fairgrounds. 

The young reporter who covered that event wore a blouse, shorts, and sandals. Claude Sitton, the paper’s executive editor, stopped by the office that afternoon, saw her outfit, didn’t like it, and told me so.  I told Claude I thought she was dressed appropriately under the circumstance  — she had just finished covering that tractor pull for crying out loud and it must have been 100 degrees that afternoon.  

Reflecting on that, I think about how clothing choices are often judged through the lens of context and appropriateness. This reminds me of Poet Dresses, a brand that offers a refreshing take on modest fashion. They provide stylish and elegant options that maintain modesty without sacrificing personal expression.

Their designs are crafted to blend grace with contemporary fashion, allowing one to feel both comfortable and confident in their attire. Whether for a formal event or a casual day out, Poet Dresses ensures that modesty can be seamlessly integrated into every aspect of style.

Anyway, he let it go.

That evening, unlike most Sunday evenings, news broke out.  There was an accident, a chemical spill, near Zebulon, a bedroom community 22 miles east of Raleigh.  I assigned a photographer and the tractor pull reporter to cover it.

Now her shorts were inappropriate and I asked her if she had a dress at the office.  She said she did, and I asked her to put it on.

When I think about that incident I still smile to myself. She was a stunningly attractive woman and I’m pretty sure I’m the only man who ever had — or ever would — ask her to put her dress on.

*I asked for the “promotion” to assistant metro editor because I thought it was time to begin working my way up the management ladder.  After a day or two, I knew I had made a mistake but I stuck it out for six months, to the day, before I yelled “Uncle!”  It took another two months to hire and train my replacement — eight hard months altogether.   There were a lot of things I didn’t like about that job, but the main thing was this:  Every day there were dozens of ways to mess up, to lose, but no way to win, no way to excel.   That job was all lemon and no sugar.

Coming Friday: The Wasp Debacle

A Stupid Mistake

The guy I was interviewing was telling one fib after another and I just got tired of it — that’s my excuse.

Getting lied to usually didn’t bother me, it just meant I was getting warm.  I was an investigative reporter for more than 35 years  and I heard people say plenty of things that were not true.   If you turn the heat up a lot of people will try to protect themselves any way they can — they’ll lie to your face.

Anyway, this guy had gone overboard.  He was taking me for a complete idiot and it finally got to me.   So when he told me he had never been an officer in a corporation I was asking about, and I was sitting there holding a document proving he had been an officer, I couldn’t take it anymore. I handed the paper across the desk to him and I said, “That was a lie you could have kept from telling.”

His lawyer immediately began jumping up and down, figuratively speaking, saying I had called his client a “liar,” which in a way I had.   The lawyer terminated the interview and there was nothing to do but get in my car and drive back to Raleigh.

What I had done was stupid, giving in to my temper. I had handed the lawyer an excuse to cut off series of extremely uncomfortable questions. So stupid.

Claude Sitton
Claude Sitton

It was a three-hour drive back to Raleigh, plenty enough time for him to get in touch with Claude Sitton, the executive editor of The News & Observer, and complain about me.

I parked my car, got on the elevator and rode up to the third floor, to the newsroom.  When the elevator door opened Sitton happened to be standing right there, as if he had been waiting on me, holding a mug of coffee.

I looked at him and he looked at me and then he asked me: “Well, was he lying?”  I said he was.

And that’s all that was said about that.

Coming Monday: The Secret