Take That, You Bean

Jack Hyland, he loved to laugh, and make other laugh.
Jack Hyland loved to laugh and make others laugh.

 

Jack Hyland like to kid around. That's not his real hair, by the way.
In case you’re wondering, that’s not Jack’s real hair.

                                                                          My wife, Donna Joy  Hyland, and I started dating when we were 17, in the fall of 1959, and, right away, I was crazy about her.  She liked me, too.  It wasn’t long before she invited me home for Sunday dinner with her  family — her father and mother, Jack and Nell; her younger sister, Karen; and her little brother, Eddie.

I accepted, of course. But I wasn’t looking forward to being on guard for an entire meal: Sit up straight; don’t spill the tea; don’t eat too much or too little; keep your elbows off the table and your left hand in your lap; make polite conversation. I think you know the drill, most of you.

Nell, age 41
Nell, at age 41

So there I was, concentrating, when something hit me on the side of my face and fell onto my plate. It was string bean.  Jack Hyland, who was sitting on my left at the head of the table, had flipped a string bean at me with a spoon.

After that, believe me, I relaxed. The pressure was off.

NOTE: When I first met Donna’s mother, Nell Kiser Hyland, I remember thinking:  She’s a good looking woman but she is so old.

Nell was 37.

NOTE:  Here’s another story I posted in January 2017 that was, as the headline said, “Vintage Jack Hyland.”

Coming Monday: Headed Home On Leave

A Solder’s Letters To His Wife

These are excerpts from letters written by Staff Sergeant Jack B. Hyland of Charlotte, N.C., to his wife, Nell Kiser Hyland, in 1944 and 1945, from France and Germany.

Jack’s letters barely mentioned the war. Instead, he talked about his love for his wife and daughter; food [he had learn to like bacon]; a hot shower; the weather; his faith in God; why he was fighting; and, yes, toilets.  Jack was a plumber, before and after the war.  He told his wife that he had only seen “3 or 4 toilets inside houses” in France.

  • Jack B. Hyland
    Staff Sergeant Jack B. Hyland

    “I love you with all my heart sweetheart and always will.  Darling I hope you and Donna [their two-year-old daughter, now my wife] are well. I am.

  • “We were going to go to Belgium but couldn’t go because of the break through at Bostonge [Bastogne, December, 1944]. We were given as replacements to the 3rd Army there in Luxemburg [Luxembourg] around Ettlebrook [Ettelbruck].”
  • “We really get good food here. We always had French toast or hotcakes in Co. F., but yesterday we had egg omelet and this morning fried eggs with bacon. I have learned to eat bacon. It is good.”
  • “I guess you think it funny but darling I got 32 letters of which most were from you and 6 Christmas cards. They surely did me good to read them. That’s all I did for about 2 hours this morning.”
  • “We each got two bars of chocolate candy + some gum. That really hit the spot out here where we are. The candy especially. You know how fond I am of it.”
  • “I’m going to a school on anti-tank weapons. I hated to leave Co. F [81st Infantry Division] but thought I’d like to learn more about anything I could in the Army.”
  • “Darling I pray all the time nite and day that I can do God’s will Day by Day and that he will guide me in my way so I know he will take care of me and He has planned my life which I hope and pray includes a safe return to my love ones there in the States.”
  • “This evening 10 or 12 of us went to get a hot shower and clean clothes.”
  • “I am just thinking and looking at your picture and longing to take you in my arms and squeeze you and love you sweetheart. Your picture is really beautiful and every time I look at it I seem to be much closer to you darling. It will be so wonderful when this mess is over and we settle down to another normal life.”
  • Jack, Donna Joy and Nell Hyland
    Jack, Donna Joy, and Nell Hyland

    “…you and Donna Joy mean the world to me and that is what I’m fighting for, to come home and start living our normal lives again.”

  • “Sweetheart, it’s getting a little warmer over here. Today was really a sunshiney spring day, no clouds in the sky.”
  • “Your letters mean everything to me sweetheart. Have you been getting any of my mail? Have you gotten any money orders yet? I love you darling.”
  • “Well today I went to church. We had an open air service. Today was Palm Sunday. The preacher…preaches a sermon that us boys can understand. We had such a large crowd we could not find a place large enough to hold them all. It would really surprise you how the boys here attend church.”

Postscript: Jack’s prayers were answered –he came home.  He and Nell had two more children and stayed married until his death on Sept. 29, 1986.

Jack had a good sense of humor and you can see it on display in a story called “Vintage Jack Hyland,” published on Jan. 13.

Coming Friday: Their Honeymoon Was Over