Baptists By Chance

My father and mother’s descendants, now numbering more than 60, are almost all Baptists and not members of some other Protestant denomination purely by chance. This is how it happened, according to my oldest sister, Marge.

Alice May Cameron Stith
Alice May Cameron Stith

“I grew up in a home with a non-church attending father and a Catholic mother who believed church was important for the well-being of her children, even though she was not attending her own church.”

In 1929 mother returned from California with their three children and the family moved to a house Dad built at 1023 Hoke Street in East Gadsden, AL. They would have four more children by 1942.

“An early recollection of our new home in Alabama was our first Sunday when my mother insisted that my father take us to church,”  Marge said.

East Gadsden Baptist Church
East Gadsden Baptist Church

“My brother [John] and sister [Jane] and I climbed into the back of the panel truck. My father stopped at a drug store for the Philadelphia Inquirer (which had a thousand funny papers, as I remember) and then parked at the first church he came to, East Gadsden Baptist Church. My father sat outside and read while we were in Sunday School.”

Our father had been raised a Methodist so why didn’t he take the children to a Methodist Church?  Because East Gadsden Baptist was closer, only about two miles from their home.

Our Mother had been raised a Catholic so why didn’t she take the children to Mass?   Because the Catholic Church had kicked her out for marrying my father, a divorced man.

In the late 1930’s or early 1940’s, Jane said, mother was baptized and joined East Gadsden Baptist Church. She was active in Women’s Missionary Union and other aspects of church life and, according to her obituary, church deacons were honorary pall bearers at her funeral in June, 1947.

Coming Friday: What’s For Supper

Salvation – Part 2 of 3

My brother, John F. Stith Jr., drove to East Gadsden Baptist Church to talk to the preacher, Dr. W. Albert Smith, but Smith wasn’t in at the moment.

“I went into the auditorium and sat on the first pew,” John wrote, waiting on the preacher to arrive. “The summer sun shone through the ten-foot high windows, the soft colors of the glass muting its harsh brightness. As I sat there, I found myself more and more embarrassed. What in the world was I going to say to this man whom I hardly knew, and who didn’t know me at all?”

John F. Stith Jr.
John F. Stith Jr.: “…God turned my life around.”

Then I thought, if you want to talk to someone, you could talk to God. And I answered myself: ‘What do you mean, talk to God? That’s praying and you don’t know nothing about praying; you never prayed in your life.’ After considering the truth of this for a few minutes, I countered with: ‘It’s true you don’t know anything about praying, but you do know how to talk!'”

“So right there in the quiet, sunshine filled space of the first pew, I got on my knees: ‘God, I don’t know nothing from nothing about all this; but if there is anything to this salvation business, I want it. I want to turn my life over to you; to be and do whatever you want from now on.'”

 “No lightening flashed no thunder rolled. Everything was as still and peaceful as it had been before. But in retrospect, I know that from that minute, God turned my life around. I began to see beauty in people who had not even been in the range of my vision before. The scriptures came alive with meaning as I approached the Bible from the stance of my new relationship with God. ‘Old things passed way; all things became new.'”

Continued tomorrow: Salvation, Part 3