Baptists By Chance

My father and mother’s descendants, now numbering more than 60, are almost all Baptists and not members of some other Protestant denomination purely by chance. This is how it happened, according to my oldest sister, Marge.

Alice May Cameron Stith
Alice May Cameron Stith

“I grew up in a home with a non-church attending father and a Catholic mother who believed church was important for the well-being of her children, even though she was not attending her own church.”

In 1929 mother returned from California with their three children and the family moved to a house Dad built at 1023 Hoke Street in East Gadsden, AL. They would have four more children by 1942.

“An early recollection of our new home in Alabama was our first Sunday when my mother insisted that my father take us to church,”  Marge said.

East Gadsden Baptist Church
East Gadsden Baptist Church

“My brother [John] and sister [Jane] and I climbed into the back of the panel truck. My father stopped at a drug store for the Philadelphia Inquirer (which had a thousand funny papers, as I remember) and then parked at the first church he came to, East Gadsden Baptist Church. My father sat outside and read while we were in Sunday School.”

Our father had been raised a Methodist so why didn’t he take the children to a Methodist Church?  Because East Gadsden Baptist was closer, only about two miles from their home.

Our Mother had been raised a Catholic so why didn’t she take the children to Mass?   Because the Catholic Church had kicked her out for marrying my father, a divorced man.

In the late 1930’s or early 1940’s, Jane said, mother was baptized and joined East Gadsden Baptist Church. She was active in Women’s Missionary Union and other aspects of church life and, according to her obituary, church deacons were honorary pall bearers at her funeral in June, 1947.

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More Growing Up Country

It’s Just Pinched

Brother Dave and I were hooking up a turning plow, the first plow in the field in the spring. I was 8 or 9, he was 10 or 11, so he was driving.  I was about to hook the tractor’s lift arms to the plow and I was motioning to him, “Down, down, down, Ooooweeee!”

My left thumb had been caught between the tractor lift arm and the plow and mangled. I screamed, pulled my bloody thumb free, and took off running for the house.

Dave hopped off the tractor and was right behind me, yelling, “It’s just pinched, Pat, it’s just pinched!”

Never has a pinch left such a scar.

The Way It Was

We rarely went into town, into Gadsden, AL, when we were growing up on the farm in the late 1940s.  In town is where you’d see the segregation signs. In the lobby of Sears & Roebuck there were two water fountains with signs over them. One fountain was for “White,” and one was for “Colored,” the signs said.

When I was a boy I never thought much about it one way or the other. It was just the way it was.

Dodging Work

Picking cotton is real job. Not like newspapering, not like a lot of so-called jobs. Dave and I didn’t pick a lot of cotton, but we picked enough.

Cotton boll
Cotton boll

It was hot work and hard on your back.  And if you weren’t real careful when you pulled the cotton out of the boll the needles on top would slice your fingers open. Heck, you got cut even if you were careful.

We were picking for a sharecropper who worked my Dad’s land, in shouting distance of our house.  One one of us – the way I remember it, it was Dave — said:

“I think I hear Momma calling us.”

And then I said, “I do too.”

And we ran for the house.

NOTE: That’s the only time I can remember my brother running away from work.  He’s 79 now, and he’s still working — two jobs.

Coming Monday: Setting Goals