The Question I Didn’t Ask

It’s a little scary how, in the blink of an eye, the direction of your life can shift radically, this way or that.

IMG_6824When I was 17-year-old senior I won a sports writing contest for high school students, a contest sponsored by The Charlotte Observer and The Charlotte News. The contest winners in the various categories were invited to a banquet and I sat with some sports writers who worked for The Observer.

Partly to make conversation and partly, I guess, to ingratiate myself, I asked them why The Observer’s sports section was so much better than the sport section in the afternoon paper, The

Brodie S. Griffith, Editor, The Charlotte News
Brodie S. Griffith, Editor, The Charlotte News

News.

They laughed, pointed to an old man at the head table, and said, “Why don’t you go ask him that question.”

Newspaper people –I know them well, and like them — they can be such rats.

That old man turned out to be Brodie S. Griffith, the editor of the afternoon paper.  [He was only 61 years old then, a young fella I’d say now, but he seemed so old when I was 17.]  I had no idea who Mr. Griffith was, but I accepted what I took to be a challenge, approached him, and introduced myself.

Before I could ask my question, thank goodness, he offered me a summer job for $1 a hour, working in his paper’s sports department.

I didn’t know anything about newspapering, of course.  I couldn’t even type. But that was double the money my Dad paid me for working in his sweat shop so I accepted on the spot.

That’s how I went to work for a newspaper.  Except for the time I spent in the Navy and in school at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, that’s all I did for the next 48 years.

Postscript:  A dollar an hour in 1960 won’t as bad as it sounds. That’s the equivalent to $8.35 in 2017, well above today’s federal minimum wage of $7.25 an hour.

Coming Friday: Man Overboard! Or Was He?

 

Salvation – Part 3 of 3

Shortly before he died on March 1, 1987, John told me that if he could have chosen not to have had cancer — at the cost of missing out on all the things he had learned about God during his illness — he wouldn’t have, he would have chosen terminal cancer.

This is John’s testimony, published in the bulletin at his memorial service.

“The first of March 1980, I went into the hospital for routine tests. After two weeks, my doctor came in and sat on the side of my bed: I knew something was wrong by what he was not saying. Finally he told me I had cancer, and had about three to five years to live.

John F. Stith Jr. in January, 1987, shortly before he died.
John F. Stith Jr. in January, 1987, a few weeks before he died.  When he gave thanks to God for his illness, he said, all the fear went away and never returned.

“In the hours that followed, my whole world seemed to crumble around me — who would take care of my family and my other responsibilities. I was just plain scared. I was afraid of the treatment, the pain that would follow, and I was afraid to die.”

“A few nights later, I lay awake reviewing the situation. I am one of those people who has had an opportunity to hear more of God’s Word than most, one of those who has grown fat on the Word; but now that it was time to apply the Word, I was faltering.”

“As I lay there, I searched through my memory for scripture that I could lean on. Finally, I thought of I Thessalonians 5:18: ‘In everything give thanks for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.‘ I couldn’t exactly lean on it, but it did bring me to pray that night one of the most difficult prayers I have ever undertaken. I thanked the Lord for the situation I was in and told Him I wanted to learn all the things He had in mind for me to learn as a result of this thing that had happened.”

“Then a miracle occurred — all of the concern and fear went away instantly, just like that, and it has never returned.”

Coming Monday: The Question I Didn’t Ask